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Let People Enjoy Things

Not everything that you see other people do will align with your values and that’s perfectly okay. Let people be who they want to be and let them enjoy things. When I was a kid, I didn’t quite understand this because I was usually on the receiving end of derogatory comments. So when I got

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Embrace Love

I thought that going to school for Criminal Justice would help me have a better understanding of why things happen the way that they do. On the administrative side, sure, I get it. But the side that deals with emotions, specifically hate, I will never understand it because it is the opposite of what I

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Toxic People – Take away their power

Have you ever had some great news that you wanted to share with your friend but found yourself being apprehensive? Should I share this news? Why do you think that happens? It is because you have a toxic relationship. Toxic relationships are relationships where two people do not share the same values and because of

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Destructive Thoughts

Part of the growing phase in life is being capable of making an honest assessment of yourself, regardless if you’re a male or female. This is what helps develop your maturity level. Keep in mind that thoughts such as: “I’m a loser. I don’t measure up to other people,” are 100% destructive thoughts and will

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Don’t listen to the Negative Committee

No matter who you are, you will always be the target of the negative committee. But guess what? They can’t make you listen to them. Only you can decide if you choose to accept the garbage that they’re spewing. The following are examples of negative things that you might hear from them: “You dream too

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Drama – Are you keeping it in your life?

Drama can only exist in your life if you allow it. Your emotions and reactions give it life. Therefore, how you respond to drama is the number one contributing factor as to why it remains there. “Don’t you dare disrespect me.” “Did you see what she said about me, on Facebook?” “Why are you not

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Do your habits still serve you?

Break away from habits that no longer serve you. Quitting the instant that you experience adversity does not serve you or anything related to being successful or your happiness. You must learn to embrace habits that will facilitate progress in the direction of your goals and your vision. “I quit the team.” “This is too

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